i had to give up on singing bc my mom told me hurtful things when i was only 11. now i'm 19 and she's like "your voice is nice why don't you sing more?" but those words are just too painful for me, and even if i try so hard, i just can't regain my confidence. and it always makes me feel guilty bc we're so close and i just can't forgive what she did. we're a happy family, she never hurt me physically, but my mom is insensitive about lots of things that she always ends up hurting people verbally, and she doesn't even care about it...